Talking About Death Won’t Kill You
Welcome to this space, where we’ll share ideas and welcome yours.
Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs?
What would happen to an astronaut body in space, or what if you ate a bag of popcorn before you died and were cremated? These and other questions are answered candidly, honestly, and with unforgettable humor in Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs?
Mom’s Old-Fashioned Death
As many dying people do, Mom stole away when she was alone for a moment. Now she was free and gone, at peace.
In Memory of Frank
Frank was clear. He wanted to follow through, as he put it, all the way to the end in Vermont. Just days before, he’d had one last voyage on his prized sailboat. He was losing significant bodily capacity every day; the pace of change was accelerating.
Will MAiD in Vermont Work for Me?
I hope to have the MAiD option in Vermont; I’ve identified a physician there who is willing to see me. But I can tell you that already the complications are mounting.
Facing the Inevitable
My son has joked with me that for four years I’ve been saying this or that could be the last time – but now, it’s surreally real. My educated guess is I’ve got 3-6 months.
You Can’t Outrun Death
The message of Natural Causes: stop working so hard to dodge aging and death; allow yourself to enjoy this gift we call life; and this means thinking for yourself, prioritizing enjoyment over peer pressure, fads and propaganda.
Before You Lose Your Mind . . . Take Control and Start Planning!
In a supportive and friendly environment, we’ll learn about specifying what we want – and don’t want – for care and medical treatments if we have dementia and aren’t able to make decisions for ourselves
We Need the Right to Make Choices While We’re Still Able
“Right to die in America is a about as meaningful as the right to eat or the right to decent housing: you’ve got the right, but it doesn’t mean you’re going to get the goods.” - Amy Bloom.
If this is my last summer . . .
He’s defying the odds. If this is his last summer, Frank wants to live it to the fullest.
How to Live Forever
Honest conversation about death and dying can help give us meaning, purpose, and focus at any time of our lives – why not start now?
Wilson’s Choice: part 1
Many times over the years, I’d heard Wilson say, “Dying is part of living.” Of course, making this statement and then facing decisions regarding your own death are two different things.
Praying for more time
Diagnosed with one of the most lethal cancers, Frank Liva’s first wish was for more time. Now, he also hopes for the option of medical aid in dying.
Right to Die in Peace, or Not?
Frank’s story illustrates why the right to choice and personal autonomy in dying is needed in our “Live Free or Die” state.
The New Death Positive Movement
There’s an enormous amount of information out there. We’re finding you the best.
Welcome to this new movement!
There are pressing reasons now for demystifying the dying process.