Memoirs

“We want autonomy for ourselves and safety for our loved ones.” This insight, among many more in this important book, has helped countless people begin to think about the loss of loved ones as well as their own mortality. Through many stories, Gawande stresses the importance of honest conversations.

With humor, fine storytelling, compassion, and insight, Richmond reflects on the aging process, including his own, from his view as a Buddhist teacher.

We wish every physician, every terminal patient, and every future terminal patient would read this book. Zitter is an ICU and palliative care physician, a great story teller, and a much needed voice of reason regarding end of life care. She takes the reader inside the ICU, bedside with patients facing grave decisions, family consultations, and the sometimes complicated dynamics within the medical team and within individual physicians, especially herself.

Bloom’s powerful, poignant, and deeply humane story of her husband’s living with early onset Alzheimer’s – and his choice to end his life. Bloom, a noted novelist, is also a therapist. With sometimes painful honesty, she describes their journey of sorrow, anger, confusion, frustration, joy, beauty, and deep love. Their story begs the question, why should Americans have to travel to Switzerland to take control of their own deaths?

Butler’s account of the decline and death of her father is harrowing, instructive, and a call to action. “Before I shepherded my parents through to their deaths, I thought that medical overtreatment was mainly an economic problem,” Butler writes. “After my father's death, I understood the human cost. After my mother's death, I saw that there could be another path.”